Thursday, April 20, 2006

意会 四月(9)

I do not understand why people hoping things happened around to turn better, think himself a fool. In fact I would say he is an optimistic person who has guts and courageous to want things to be better. He is even greater if he can actually change the situations around and improve the scenes. Why do we need to lower our expectations just to fit in to the inferiority? If they can not upgrade themselves, those were their problems! We do not bear sins for them! I hope this simple understanding would clear / encourage some-seem-to-be-still-have-hope-but-somehow-have-little-self-esteem,-with- potential-to-still-uplift-themselves-people. With my very best blessing. Hope for the best to happen, that is just the "of-course".

4 comments:

Beh Seng Hui said...

so, u mean, lets say if i quit my job, and my mother wil feel sad, and that's her problem bcos she's inferior?

Ymoon Yeemun Oon 温绮雯 said...

ah beh,
she is your mum, you do not want to make her sad! and you never ever think your mum is inferior!!可以搞清楚一点吗?

Nightraveller said...

但是Beh06的举例却已经反了你上述的观点噢。

Ymoon Yeemun Oon 温绮雯 said...

大概我指的是:与你的生活无实际关系,而你却因为他们而止步, 或希望他们可以使你的生活更好的群族;(但为什么要因为他们而使自己生活得不好呢?)
而你们指的是:与生活很有关系,应为自己或他们的呢? 的家人。(但在想及自己的任意或家人的期待时,那种类似道德两难的情形。。。。。。) 在这里,可以用“沟通”这个名词吗?
Ah Beh already reached 21 and far more than that, I can not understand why he still have this "baby-boy" 情意结? (sorry)
啊!中国式的男人。。。。